I think about being married, and not being married, how it would be either ways…. Those thoughts are for some other time,I just think about being with someone for so long, and having a family and all, the act of ‘marriage’ not being a necessity or a tie by all means, or a burden, or something of the sort. The thought alone can be cumbersome, well.. That’s when you don’t have the person you’ll be with or have no idea how it would be.
Moving on… Lately I thought about actually having a ring on my finger. THAT is a big deal, a bigger deal than the act of marriage itself maybe. Its just there for you to gaze at, and everybody sees it to, it chases away potential wooers, or causes people to sugar coat their talks on certain topics, and on another hand causes some people to heighten their talks on those topics. But that’s not the point, wearing an engagement is a big deal, a lot of pressure. It might be something material, and have no true ties to expressing someone’s feelings, but for onlookers it says a whole lot.
Overwhelming!
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